Men are given completely confusing advice about what to do to pick up the perfect girl. How can you know exactly how to pick up chicks?
Be nice, but also be a little ambivalent. Be confident, but don’t be too confident.
If you don’t know what you’re doing when you want to talk to a woman you don’t know, it can feel impossible. Even if you do know her, what do you say to make sure she is interested, too?
Check out our tips below to make sure that next time you want to pick up a girl, you can do it with ease.
How to Pick Up Chicks: The Basics
There are some simple tips that you can try to make it easier to find women that are interested in you.
How Attractive Are You?
The first thing to consider is your attractiveness. Are you sending the world the best message of who you are and who you want to be?
Becoming more attractive is a strategy that men can use for picking up girls because it makes them more desirable. When you’re desirable, the whole process is easier.
How Likable Are You?
You also need to be likable. Make a girl laugh, show her you know what you are doing, and be respectful. These are great ways to show a girl that you care about her and you also care about yourself.
How Confident Are You?
If you don’t know how to feel more confident, you can fake it until it is actually true. A lot of these feels about ourselves don’t just happen overnight and its something you have to work at for it to be true.
Where Do You Go?
Try to meet women at a variety of places rather than just the same bar or the same friends’ houses. Casting a wide net means you’ll have more opportunities to try (and succeed) in picking up more women.
How Is Your Body Language?
Work on your body language. You want to be open with your body, but not so much so that it makes the other person uncomfortable. Learn about the ways that body language can actually say more than words.
Are You Prepared?
Always go into the conversation knowing how you want to start it off and knowing what you want her to see you as.
Understand the heterosexual male and female dynamic as well. Be your best self and make her feel good about herself, too.
Other Strategies to Try
Just like any other interaction with humans, sometimes things are a little bit unpredictable. You may meet a chick that does not respond to some of the more basic pick up tactics and that’s okay!
You can always try just being honest and saying that you don’t usually talk to girls, but you like her and want to get to know her.
This can be better than going into a conversation with a pick-up line for some women.
Another strategy is to just practice. Even if there are women that you’re not that interested in, you could try to practice picking them up.
This way you will have more experience for when a woman you’re really interested in comes along.
If you’re just looking for someone to talk to, you could always try party lines and that may be enough to give you the feeling you’re looking for.
Ready to Get Out There?
Are you single and ready to mingle? Now that you know how to pick up chicks, you’re probably anxious to try finding someone new.
It can be hard to get outside of your comfort zone, but once you’re there, you won’t want to go back.
Check out more tips about becoming a better man and learning how to interact with women right here on our website.