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Talking about death isn’t something that most people like talking about as it is but to go as far as planning for it is just unfathomable for some people. They think they’re too young to be planning for something like that but the reality is that you’re never too old to plan for death. Do you know how many people have lost their lives way before they were ready to die? Millions of people have. Whether it’s from a car accident, illness, or natural causes, planning ahead is not only going to help you but it’s also going to lessen the stress of your loved ones as well.
The thing people fail to realize about dying is that dying doesn’t just affect you… it affects everyone around you as well. Okay, so that statement might sound a little weird and maybe even selfish at the same time, right? You’re probably thinking, how can my death affect others… I’m the one that’s dead? Well, you might be the one that’s dead but death can either bring families closer together or tear them apart… it just depends on your family’s dynamics.
When someone dies and doesn’t have their end-of-life arrangements in order, it can cause a big rift in the family. Arguments about who gets what and going back and forth on whether or not to “pull the plug” can weigh heavily on a family… that’s why it’s best to get you end-of-life arrangements together before you need them but it’s too late.
Getting your end-of-life arrangements isn’t as daunting of a task as it may seem. In fact, with a lot of these arrangements, getting them handled is simply a matter of downloading and printing off documents online. If you’re unsure as to which documents you need to begin making your end-of-life arrangements, take a look at this guide… it’ll get you started in the right direction.
Create a Power of Attorney
Drafting a power of attorney is one of the first things you need to do in planning your estate. Most people think that a power of attorney is an actual person but it’s really a legal document. You’ll hear people say “who is your power of attorney?” when really, they should be asking who their agent is.
A power of attorney is a legal document that allows you to pick someone to make decisions on your behalf in the event you become incapacitated or die. If you want to download a free power of attorney template, you can visit willtemplates.com.
Create a Living Will
By creating a living will, you’re taking control of your end-of-life care. You could easily just tell a family member or loved one what you want done if your health gets to a point where you have to choose whether or not to live. The medical term of this decision-making process is called a directive. You’d be surprised at how many people don’t take the time out to create a living will.
Creating a living will takes away the burden of putting such a difficult decision on your loved ones. One person might want every possible effort done to keep their dying loved one alive, whereas the other family members might not want their loved one to be hooked up to feeding tubes and poked and prodded on… A living will, will allow you make your own decision on what you want your end-of-life care to be. Your loved ones will be there to make sure that your wishes are carried out the way you want them to.
Appoint a Guardian For Your Children
One of the worst things you can do is not properly plan for your children in the event of your death, especially if they’re under the age of 18. You want to choose someone who is financially stable, physically and mentally well, and they have an established good relationship with your kids. You have to remember, kids grieve differently and you want to make sure they’re with people who will be able to comfort them in their time of need.
According to mercyhome.org, grieving is more than death. Kids can grieve at the fact that they live with someone that isn’t attentive to their needs, and that’s the last thing you want for your kids, especially when it can be prevented with proper planning.
Plan Your Funeral
Planning your funeral is one of the most stressful things your family members endure when grieving the loss of a loved one. You can save them the stress of it all if you go ahead and do it all the planning for them. You can choose your own casket, pick the types of flowers you want, and where you want to be buried.
Your family will be going through enough as it is… by planning your own funeral, you’ll be able to take a huge load of stress away from them and allow them to properly grieve without feeling the stress of having to take on the responsibilities of planning and paying for a funeral.